What makes your house a home?
Is it a home because you live in a brand new house, decked to the nines with all of the latest gadgets and upgrades? Is it because you have formed great relationships with your neighbors and consider them to be an extended family?
I was pondering these questions as I am thinking about what I am grateful for this holiday season. I am first and foremost grateful for my children, my health, the lifestyle that I live.
I am also grateful to live in the neighborhood I do. While I wouldn’t go so far as to give a kidney to my neighbors should they need one, I am blessed to live in a neighborhood where people look out for each other.
If I am behind in yard work, I have a neighbor who will blow my leaves if she is out working on her yard. When my kids get off the bus from school I know that their short walk to get home is guided by the caring eyes of neighbors seeing their safe harbor along the way. If I need a cup of sugar or am just looking for some friendly conversation, I know I can go a few doors down and find it.
I can’t put a price tag on the comfort and security this adds to my life.
The neighborhood I live in now reminds me of my childhood days. My family lived in upstate New York in an old 1800’s colonial summer estate. In this house, every room had a history and a story. When we moved in we added to the house’s history with our traditions and family experiences. I believe this house had a soul.
My family now lives in Walworth County, Wisconsin. We haven’t lived in New York for nearly two decades, yet the friendships that my family made from our old neighborhood in New York are still alive today. The stories from our childhood years in New York are retold to my children, usually during the holidays. The house and neighborhood in New York will be with us always.
So what makes your house a home? If you are looking to purchase a house now, what kinds of things are you looking for that will provide you with lifelong memories? And one word of advice, if you do find that house, grab it. It will provide you with a lifetime full of memories.
Posted by Rebecca D. Levinson